I'm either having deja vu or something strange is going on. I'm sure I posted this message somewhere.....hmm

Anyway, would it be possible that only NEW shows on the main page for others' posts and not your own?

I keep posting and going to the main page and thinking

"ooo someone has replied already"

...and then I realise it is just my own post.

Sorry to compare to W3T again but I liked the way it only showed "new" on the main page if it was a message other than your own.