Oh, my! I'm gettin' all misty!!! (No joke.)
"JPDeni" stands for "Just Plain Deni" -- "Deni" coming from my middle name, which is Denise. I picked the nickname up in high school -- a very long and boring story.
Yes, Carol is my first name. That's what my family calls me. But those who are my closest friends call me "Deni."
I really do like helping folks. Sometimes it gets overwhelming and I end up spending much too much time here when I should be doing other things. (Minor little things like doing the dishes and making dinner.
) I also like the way the programming keeps my ol' brain going. I'm pretty much confined to home for a number of reasons and it would be very easy for me to veg out in front of the tv while my brain cells completely atrophy. But this keeps me sharp.
As I mentioned somewhere recently, I've started my own new DBMan project and a lot of the things I've given to folks here has been useful for me. I didn't have to start completely from scratch. (One more humungous "thank you" to LoisC for creating an index of mods that I could use to find stuff.)
To tell you the truth (warning: another really candid moment coming up!), the thing that bothers me most about the forum are the times when people are unkind to each other. Much of this can be done without any "touchy-feely" stuff and that's fine. But I have read some things where a few folks are just plain mean in what they say. I am the sort of person that takes it all to heart. If someone says something unkind to another, and I read it, it's like he or she is saying it to me. That is a major reason that I left the forum last year. It started when I got a really awful headache, and had to be out for a while because of that. When the headache went away, I just couldn't bear coming back to a place that had become unpleasant.
When I came back, it was only after deciding that I would not only help folks with questions, but that I would also take action to at least minimize the rude things that people said to each other.
(See what happens when you say nice things to me? I get all emotional and start pouring out my innards!
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Your words are very kind and they touched me deeply. (I'm gettin' misty again.) Thank you.
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JPD