It's relatively easy to modify the plugin yourself:
Add a new column to the Rec_Stats table, for example 'RecID'.
In recommend_it.cgi, look in sub main and add this line after the other lines marked $stats_hash:
$stats_hash->{'RecID'} = $id;
That should be all that is required, unless I have forgotten something else I modified to get it working. If you want to view the link ID from the Recommend It stats in the admin you need to modify the plugin file, Recommend_It.pm. There is a an extra line required to get the ID from the database:
my $link_id = $hit->{'RecID'};
You then need to modify the results table and add an extra column (add an extra heading cell and then an extra results table cell for $link_ID).
Hope that helps

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